"Friendship"
SELF-LOVE AND AWARENESS ARTICLES BY TANIA SHAH
Have you ever had a falling out with a close friend and wondered where it all went wrong?
It’s common for friendships to come to an end due to misunderstandings, differences in opinions, or simply growing apart. It can leave us with feelings of hurt, anger, and sadness. However, it’s important to keep in mind that sometimes friendships run their course, and it’s okay to let go and move on.
It’s important to address any issues and try to work through them, but if it’s clear the friendship is over, it’s best to focus on the positive memories and lessons learned.
The idea of best friends is an illusion, why!
The idea of having one best friend who will always be there for you, no matter what, is a popular belief. People are individuals with unique thoughts, beliefs, and experiences, which makes it impossible for one person to fulfill all of our emotional and social needs. Having friends who fill different roles in our lives can actually be beneficial and realistic.
For example, one friend may be the go-to person for advice on relationships, while another may be the one we turn to for a fun night out. It’s important to recognize that having a variety of friends can provide us with a broader support system and make our social lives more interesting and fulfilling.
While the idea of having one best friend who fulfills all of our emotional and social needs is a romantic notion, it’s not a realistic expectation. Embrace the diversity of friendships in your life, and appreciate the different roles that your friends play in supporting and enriching your life.
Why we cutting communication with them?
In today’s fast-paced world, it is common to lose touch with people. However, when it comes to cutting all forms of communication, the reason could be rooted in the different backgrounds of individuals involved. Everyone comes from a unique set of experiences, beliefs, and values that can impact how they interact with others. What one person may perceive as harmless behavior, another person may find offensive or hurtful.
What can we do to maintain our friendship?
Friendship requires effort and understanding from both parties involved. One important aspect of safeguarding our friendships is learning how to set Healthy Boundaries.
We need to be willing to communicate our needs, desires, and limitations in a way that respects ourselves and our friends, while creating an environment that fosters mutual respect and Trust. It’s essential to recognize that Healthy Boundaries are not about controlling others, but rather about protecting ourselves and our relationships. We also need to be willing to listen and be open to feedback from our friends, as well as taking responsibility for our actions when we breach their trust or disrespect their boundaries. With a commitment to healthy boundaries, we can keep our friendships safe and flourishing for years to come.
Final Advice
In our lives, we encounter many individuals who are not identical to us. Each person is unique, with their own set of experiences, beliefs, and characteristics. As we interact with others, we should value their uniqueness and recognize that we can learn from them.
By doing this, we can broaden our understanding of the world and develop greater empathy and understanding towards others. It is crucial to appreciate the diversity that exists among people and use this as an opportunity for personal growth and development.